why live deeply

       Living deeply is about creating a meaningful life.  It's about putting the quality back into life by creating win-win scenarios.  This requires a shift in values, away from "profit above all," quantification, and our usual win-lose scenarios, to a value-based culture that is cooperative, sustainable, compassionate, and transparent.  It's about creating a good-for-all, not just a good-for-some, culture.       

      Any reason not to want this?

 

a Ford or a BMW?

            You get the difference between a Ford and a BMW.  The BMW is a better car.  Because all components are made of superior materials, and lengthy thought and testing has gone into the design of the mechanics, it will last long and the driving experience is exceptional.

            When it comes to food we have the same choices, between the Fords and the BMWs of foods so to speak, but.......with food the choices you make matter a whole lot more than which car you drive.  And I am not talking about caviar versus pasta.  I am talking about how a food is grown or made, what goes into it, how natural it is - you get it, its inherent quality.  Food goes inside your body, it literally becomes you.  It gives you the energy to live, promotes building and healing the cells in your body, contributes to a good immune system, feeds the brain so you can "think on your feet," and insures your overall good health.  My mother believes that she would have been taller if she didn't get inferior food during the first six crucial years of her life, the six years of WWII.

            Inferior foods, whether out of a carton and enhanced with chemicals, grown with pesticides, premade and over sugared, fed antibiotics and growth hormones, or kept and slaughtered under horrific conditions, cannot give you BMW quality health.    The consequences can be many fold.  Eating inferior foods can cause you to be more susceptible to illness in general because your body doesn't get adequate nutrition, you may tire more easily, have a troubled digestive tract, duller skin, less zest for life, think more fuzzily, become afflicted by chronic conditions, and even die younger.

            Of all the Western industrialized countries this one spends the least amount of money on food in proportion to average income - for the sake of your health, increase your food budget.   You don't need a BMW to get around, but you need superior food to live a long, healthy, and beautiful life.

good humor

             You probably know that laughing is good for your health and wellbeing.  I love good, gentle humor - especially the kind that is self-deprecating because it's not done at someone else's expense.  Dressing someone down in order to elevate yourself - look at that garish dress, haha - creates a win-lose situation.  When you humor yourself on the other hand - oh, dear, hopefully stepping into that dog pile will bring me a whole bunch of good luck - nobody else gets emotionally hurt because you pointed out the irony in something you yourself did - then everyone can laugh freely and without guilt.  It's a win-win.

            Because I'm a bit serious by nature I have always admired people who can humor themselves, who don't take themselves too seriously.  But as I'm maturing I'm getting a little better at it, more easily in writing, when I have some time to think about what to say, although I will never be a stand-up comic. 

            Self-deprecating humor doesn't offend anyone but the humorist, so it's safe and harmless.  I heard someone say that it only works well if you're confident already.  Then it can be put to good use - as a speaker to loosen up an audience, as a teacher to lighten the classroom atmosphere, as a boss in a meeting.  Self-deprecation makes us human and approachable.  How is your sense of humor?

no waste

         Nature leaves no waste, only people do. Nature's waste is sustainable because its decomposition follows a sustainable cycle in which every part feeds the next step in the cycle endlessly.  Animal waste and dead plant material compost back into the soil, carrion eating birds and little critters take care of animal carcasses, trees absorb the carbon dioxide that animals and humans exhale.  It is only us humans who have devised production processes that transform natural materials into stuff that is either itself not recyclable (think plastics) and creates trash that way, or whose manufacturing produces side effects in the form of waste and pollution (any industrial process).

            Worldwide many towns and cities strive to become zero-waste by 2020.  The goal of zero-waste is to recycle and compost everything so nothing goes into the landfill.  It takes a strong commitment from the city and a persistent education effort to overcome people's initial resistance and learning curve - take a look at this video of a Japanese town that's almost there.  Then take a look at your household trash and recycling logistics.  Can you do better?  You may also want to re-read an older post - trash-free?    Since Nature leaves no waste let's remember that we, actually, are Nature, too.

 

 

 

the glue of relationships

              Profit and trust are difficult to reconcile.  It's easy to lose trust when money enters the picture, especially in the business world.  When profit, our highest cultural value, reigns over trust or compassion or mutual benefit it undermines a relationship.  But trust is the glue of all good relationships.  When we lose trust in someone because they value their company's or their own financial benefit over a cooperative and open relationship we tend to tread backwards, withhold from ourselves, and close up. Business relationships often display a certain level of distrust or cautiousness because a business's ultimate goal by definition revolves around profit.  

            However, once we become aware of the tie-in between money and trust, it's possible to work for the mutual benefit of both parties by consciously working towards a win-win situation, a scenarios that benefits both parties or partners.  Trust is the ultimate glue of any relationship.  Build trust and you create a bond.

money co-ops

             If there were a credit union in my town I'd transfer my money in a minute. The difference between a credit union and a bank is that banks are for-profit.  That means that the more fees they charge you and the less interest they give you the wealthier they become.  Credit unions, on the other hand, are non-profit organizations working for and on behalf of their members.   In a way a credit union is something like a banking co-operative.  In general their fees are lower than banks' fees, their interest rates tend to be slightly higher, their executive salaries are lower, they have fewer branches, and they are more locally oriented.   Their purpose is to work with and for you, as opposed to for their own self-preservation.  

            With social changes and tendencies towards more cooperation and more transparency, credit unions are becoming more and more popular because their practices are more customer oriented.  It is millennials that are driving the credit union growth trend,  and credit unions are growing faster than other financial institutions.

           Do you have a credit union in your town?

the joys of weekday grittiness

            I usually look forward to the weekend, especially going to sleep knowing that my night will not end with the sound of the alarm clock, but that I can wake up slowly, whenever, and linger luxuriously in bed. 

            But I am in a very creative period of my life and lots of stuff is happening, and most of it happens during the week.  So, believe it or not, there have been some weekends when I've been looking forward to resuming doing my stuff, to the grittiness of the week.

            Grittiness of weekday life?  By that I mean being deeply engrossed in my work instead of coasting, my weekend modus operandi.  There is great satisfaction in being intensely involved in something that has meaning to me.  Weekend life puts that work on hold, it places me on hold, it makes me pause, it interrupts my creative flow.  Sometimes the truly mundane is what's most meaningful; not the special spa manicure, not the special restaurant meal, not the lingering in bed, but the submersion in work you like doing, the feeling of accomplishment and getting something important done.  Which mundane tasks do you truly enjoy?

             See also an earlier related post Monday, Monday.